Men—especially successful, resource-rich men—are wired or placed for polygamy. This isn’t speculation. It’s historical fact, evolutionary science, and observable reality.
From kings with harems to modern billionaires with multiple mistresses, the pattern doesn’t lie. Yet, women would rather listen to other women’s fantasies about male nature than accept the truth when men spell it out for them.
Here is the common absurdity:
•A man will clearly state: “I want a young, feminine, low-body-count woman who understands I may not be monogamous.”
•Then some woman—who has never been a man, never studied male biology, and likely has a trail of failed relationships—will declare: “No, what he REALLY wants is a strong, independent old woman who demands exclusivity!”
•And women will believe her over the man himself.
This isn’t just comical—it’s the root of modern dating dysfunction. Women are taking romantic advice from people who aren’t their target market. Imagine a business ignoring its customers’ direct feedback and instead asking competing businesses what they think the customers want. That’s how women operate in relationships—and then they’re shocked when the “customer” (the high-value man they seek) takes his business elsewhere.
Every African man—whether he admits it publicly or not—has polygamous instincts. The difference is opportunity. A broke man pretends to be monogamous because he lacks options.
A wealthy man? He exercises those options openly. History proves this;
•Ancient rulers: Pharaohs, emperors, and chiefs with countless wives.
•Modern elites: Politicians, businessmen, and celebrities with hidden side relationships.
•Everyday men: The guy with a wife and a “side chick” he financially supports.
Yet, African women—especially those raised by polygamous fathers or surrounded by polygamous brothers—still cling to the fairy tale that a rich, powerful man will be exclusively theirs. How? If your own father had 8 children with 8 women, and your brother has 3 girlfriends despite being married, what makes you think you’ll be the exception?
In any competitive market, the buyer with the most resources dictates the terms. High-value men are the premium customers in the dating marketplace. And what do they want?
•Variety (because they can afford it).
•Youth & beauty (because biology is undefeated).
•Low drama, high reward (because why settle for stress when options abound?).
Yet, women keep offering the same depreciating product (headaches, inflated egos, and emotional baggage) while demanding monopoly-level commitment from men who have no incentive to comply. It’s like a street vendor trying to charge monopoly prices for a product Walmart sells cheaper and better.
I always say, if you want to understand crocodiles, you study crocodiles—not birds. Yet, women try to understand men by listening to other women instead of the men themselves. The result? A generation of women shocked that the men they “claimed” didn’t behave the way their girlfriends assured them they would.
Of course, many women will eventually realize the truth, but for most, it’ll be too late. Their prime years will be gone, their best options already taken by younger, more realistic competitors. The smart ones adapt early. The stubborn ones learn the hard way.
If you want to succeed in the dating market, study your customer. And the customers—men—have been telling you what they want for centuries. Stop listening to the competition. Start listening to the buyers.
Why don’t women listen to the customers–men?
