Let’s not pretend.
Relationships today aren’t just about love—they’re marketplaces.
And for most women, it’s not a partnership. It’s a transaction.
Let’s talk about hoeflation—the silent economy inflating the cost of dating and marriage beyond reason.
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1. The Richest Woman in the World Got There by Divorce
Not by launching a startup.
Not by inventing something.
But by exiting a marriage—with half.
When Jeff Bezos and MacKenzie split, her net worth skyrocketed overnight.
It was the most expensive breakup in history.
That’s not slander. That’s strategy.
And for many watching? It became a blueprint.
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2. Love Is Now a Leverage Play
You’re not just dating her—you’re funding her lifestyle.
She has a boyfriend? Maybe.
But she’ll say, “He’s not doing enough.”
That’s the bait.
Now you’re in competition.
Now you’re trying to “rescue” her from a relationship she has zero plans of leaving.
And the moment you start spending, she starts calculating.
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3. Inflated Value, Diminished Returns
It used to be: get to know her. Build something together.
Now?
One date becomes entitlement.
One gift becomes a subscription.
One compliment becomes expectation.
You’re not dating.
You’re bidding.
And the product?
Already repackaged. Overused. Emotionally unavailable.
But still marketed like limited edition.
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4. Long-Term Marriages Are Long-Term Setups
Some men stay in marriages for dreams.
Some women stay for deadlines.
They wait. They smile. They play house.
Until the kids graduate.
Until the house is paid off.
Until the pension matures.
Then—boom.
Divorce papers.
With claims rehearsed like monologues.
And settlements that feel more like heists.
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5. The Child Might Not Be Yours—But the Bill Is
Let’s talk DNA.
30% of paternity tests come back negative.
And that’s just among those bold enough to check.
You pay rent.
Buy food.
Do school runs.
But she says the child is yours—and the court agrees.
Until you check.
And by then, it’s too late.
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6. She Doesn’t Need Only Fans to Rack in Cash
We talk about love.
But under the surface, there are unspoken exchanges happening:
Attention for airtime.
Loyalty for lifestyle.
Silence for sponsorship.
She doesn’t say “thank you.”
She says, “It’s the least you can do.”
And if you ask for accountability?
You’re called insecure.
She’s not posting nudes doesn’t mean she’s not profiting off her body.
Her parents still offer her accommodation that’s why she can’t go that wild.
Maybe because she’s also a little bit shy to face the camera.
But she knows women who are pulling soft porn paychecks just by existing around rich men.
Her role model is an OnlyFans millionaire getting invited to every podcast and news desk…
Why would she embrace “modesty” that pays nothing and still gets cheated on by broke boys?
And don’t think marrying a village girl is your escape hatch.
Instagram may have corrupted the city—but TikTok has reached the village.
The once modest girl is now going naked for follows and coins on TikTok and BIGO Live.
Modern feminism says she can monetize her appeal.
And if you fall for it?
She’ll sell the dream and cash out on your belief in “loyalty.”
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Final Word: This Isn’t About Hate—It’s About Awareness
There are good women.
There are loyal women.
There are builders.
(So I don’t sound like the doomsayers )
But many are hustlers hiding behind heart emojis.
Some use tears. Others use filters. All of them know one thing:
There’s a price on attention—and a premium on delusion.
So don’t just fall in love.
Carry your senses along.
Don’t just date blindly.
Watch her moves with paranoia.
Because in this economy?
Love is no longer a blessing.
It’s a liability.
And the moment you start competing in the wrong arena?
You won’t just lose her.
You’ll lose your peace.
Your property.
Your purpose.
And if married—half your life savings.
The comments are open.
Let the financial advisers and heartbreak graduates speak.
